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Elena L. Kirshina
Konnaya st, building # 8 apartment # 15 St. Petersburg,
AKA: Yelena Leonidovna Kirshina, Elena Leonidovna Tarasova,
and Elena L. Kirchina
To All Whom It May Concern
I have e-mailed Ken Agee co-owner of A Foreign Affair in two letters 19 January and 3
February and he has refuse to even acknowledge them. I am going to tell my story to
www.russianwomenblacklist.com & www.antiscam.org & www.russian-scam.org &
www.antiscam.net & www.scamalert.freeservers.com & www.womenrussia.com &
www.firstdreams.com & scamprotection@yahoo.com and others about my dealings with
Elena L. Kirshina I.D. 37470 and the scam she ran on me and A Foreign Affair�s refusal
to list her as scammer on their web site as they originally did, but then removed her after she and Ksenia |
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Kozeritskaya I.D. 34088 (Chris ex-fianc�e that scammed him as well, but they still have Ksenia Kozeritskaya listed as scammer she did the same scam, but to a lesser degree than Elena, but they have removed Elena from the same list. I ask why only Elena to be removed) after her personal meeting with A Foreign Affair tour director Gary Kryk. I have my suspicious that Gary has a personal interest in Elena or someone at A Foreign Affair has. When I talked with him he defended her and did not want to hear about my side of this scam the victim side. He said I was lying and was causing bad feelings toward other Americans with my crusade to point out her scamming of me. He said I was just being bitter because she changed her mind about marrying me. This is not the case, but you can form your own opinion after reading my letter to Ken Agree and the attach letters from Elena to me and me to her. Up date I have been informed by e-mail 28 April 2003 from a friend while he was visiting A Foreign Affair�s Office in Phoenix and was looking at the current issue of A Foreign Affair�s magazine they have Elena L. Kirshina featured in the current issue of their magazine. Gary Kryk assured me A Foreign Affair was finished with her and she would have no more dealing with A Foreign Affair in any manner. He said they just did not believe she was a scammer and would not re-list her as scammer as I had requested. So I see who is a liar. Update please read letter below from Preston Steckel the President of European Connections Tours www.russianladies.com it seems like they an A Foreign Affairs Tours dance to the same music from their Russian offices in St. Petersburg.
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Dear Mr. XXXXXXX,
Thank you for your email. I have reviewed your complaint and request, investigating further by contacting A Foreign Affair. I must tell you at this time that we will not be removing the above-referenced lady from our website. According to A Foreign Affair, they initially did remove her from their site, but only to complete their investigation. Upon conclusion of that investigation they determined that she simply did not want to marry you. Although harsh, it is not illegal nor immoral to change one's mind - particularly for such a serious and life-changing decision. For that reason A Foreign Affair elected to re-list her on their website. While I empathise with your situation I find that I cannot accommodate you by removing Elena from our website. I do not think she handled her change of mind in the best way, but I am not convinced she maliciously duped you out of your money.
Thank you.
Best regards,
Preston Steckel mailto:preston@russiantours.com
President
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Well it appears this scammer has her backers let me fill you in on her history. When A Foreign Affair tours www.loveme.com first listed her as scammer and removed her from their services September 2002. She ran to Anastasia Tours www.anastasiaweb.com and posted her pictures and profile in October 2002. I found it and contacted Anastasia Tours and they removed her and placed her on their blacklist. After she finds out this she runs to European Connections Tours www.russianladies.com post her pictures and profile in January 2003 and I contact them about removing her and get this letter from Preston Steckel the president of European Connections Tours. She also runs to Anastasia Tours www.anastasiaweb.com in April 2003 and gives them wrong last name to post her pictures and profile when I see this I contact Anastasia Tours www.anastasiaweb.com and they remove her. I want to say it appears to me that Anastasia Tours is the only tour agency that really has it�s present, past and future clients interest at heart hear. When it comes to dealing with a scammer. I hope anyone that read this keeps this in mind when and if they decide on taking one of these tours. I know I would only use Anastasia Tours in the future after my dealings with A Foreign Affairs Tours and European Connections Tours, but it is your choice after making your |
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determination of my situation with this scammer I met through A Foreign Affair Tours and their promotion and support of her and European Connections Tours choice of promoting and supporting her as well as not being a scammer. She now list her work as Tour manager on her profile at www.russianladies.com maybe she is now working for one of them it would not surprise me if she were.
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To: Ken Agee
Co-owner A Foreign Affair Tours
ken@loveme.com
Hello Ken
I sent you this letter below on 19 January 2003 and 3 February 2003 and I have
recieve no answer from you. So I can only assume you have no intentions in granting
my request. I can only assume these are the type of women you want at your socials
and on your web site and in your magazine.
It is very important that this woman be listed on your scam list on your site as you
once listed her and now she has been removed. Although I am not the vindictive type,
but honestly, this woman along and Ksenia Kozeritskaya AFA # 34088 that have
already been reported to you by myself and Chris your clients on the February 2002
St. Petersburg tour. We were scammed for thousands of dollars. I can't believe her
scam listing has been removed from your site. I see that you do still have Ksenia
Kozeritskaya still listed as a scammer and I am asking for Elena to be placed back as
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scammer as well. I am sending proof of her lies and scamming. I have copied and
pasted in this e-mail for you to read her e-mails to me. I will be glad to forward these e-mails at your request anytime if the coping and pasting is not proof enough for you. Facts: During taking my trip to St. Petersburg in February 2002. I became engaged to Elena on 24 February 2002 after meeting her at first social 18 February 2002. She then asked me for money for a computer modem and for English lessons for her and her son and for a telephone to be hooked up in her apartment. I gave her a total of approximately $1000 for this before I departed St. Petersburg March 2002. I wanted to come back to St. Petersburg to visit her and to get to know her better, but she did not want me to do this and ask me if we could meet some where warm to get to know each other better and it would be more special for her and she suggested either Jamaica or the Dominican Republic as her profession was a travel agency manager. I agreed and we met in Montego Bay, Jamaica April 2002 for 2 weeks and she ask for more money for dental work for her and her son, baby sitting money for her son while she was with me in Jamaica and money to replace her job income since she was going to stop working where she could have more time to correspond with me and get her processing done for fianc�e visa interview in Moscow in July 2002. I gave her approximately $1000 to take back with her to St. Petersburg. After I got back home and about the last of May 2002 my friend Tim that I met on my February tour was going to St. Petersburg to visit his fianc�e and I sent approximately $100 by him to buy flowers and candy for Elena's birthday 30 May 2002 and when Tim�s fianc�e called Elena a man answered the phone and when Tim�s fianc�e ask for Elena in Russian he said �Honey� you have phone call. Tim�s fianc�e told this to Tim and said that this was wrong of Elena to have a man at her apartment that addressed her as honey when she was engaged to marry xxxxx and Tim asked his fianc�e what she thought about this and she told Tim she did not believe Elena was serious about marriage with xxxxx and did not think she was a good woman. Tim did not tell me of this until after I got back from my trip to meet Elena in Paris 9 June to 16 June 2002 and after she had changed her fianc�e interview date from July to September 2002. I was talking with Tim about Elena changing the interview date and her getting so upset in Paris (She threw a three hour tantrum that included drinking 2 bottles of wine by herself and smoking one cigarette one right after another while crying and yelling if you love me and trusted me you would not question me about money or anything. �I might add she claims in her profile that she does not drink or smoke�. You Americans are all a like all you think about is your money.) when I questioned her why she did not want me to come with her and her son on the trip to the sea, but she wanted me to give her money for this trip. Also she was very upset when I refuse to buy all of the clothes she wanted me to let her purchase in Paris for her and her son. I told her I would buy all of these clothes after she and her son arrived in America and I told her I did not want her to buy them in Russia or Paris and she became very upset about me saying no to her. I could not understand then why she did not want to wait to buy them in America, but now I know why and it was because she never had any intentions of coming to America and wanted to get as much as she could from me before she told me she wasn't going to come. All our disagreements were over me saying no to her request for things that she wanted then. I did said yes to many of her requests, but most I told her I would not buy them until she arrive in America. So she would get angry with me and would say they are just too expensive for you that is the reason you are saying no now. I said no that is not the reason. I only want to wait until you and son come to America and then purchase everything you and your son need then. I still bought her a lot of things clothes etc. for her and her child in Jamaica and Paris just not everything she wanted and she stilled use some of my money to buy some things in Russia also that she mentions in her e-mail to me. When I ask her to explain where all the money went that I gave her in St. Petersburg in February 2002 and in Jamaica in April 2002 she would get very upset. She would always get upset when I questioned her about using the money that I gave her for certain things and she would use it on other things and then would not ask me for money for those things she used the money for. I had given her way more money to manage on than what she was making at the time I met her. At that time she was managing on $4000 rubles ($130 US) a month that she got paid for her work at the travel agency. In the 4 months before she changed her fianc�e visa interview date from 11 July 2002 to 5 September 2002. I had given her approximately $4000 in cash and spent a good deal more on her and her son. When Elena speaks about our disagreements this is what they were all about and her wanting to holiday without me, but for me to pay for her holiday and this was the same disagreements that she speaks about that took place in Jamaica and one other serious disagreement that happen in Jamaica was when I thought that her indecent display of pulling her swim suit down to her to the top of her cunt and up into the crack of her ass in front of the Jamaican men on the beach creating vulgar and sexual comments from them toward her. I told her it was not proper behavior of a good woman and she got very angry and said I was being controlling and jealous. I told her I wouldn't accept that kind of behavior from her as my wife nor did I believe in her holidaying with out me and that is the way it would be if she wanted to marry me. This is what she is speaking of when she says the Jamaican disagreements and when she says she is sorry she hurt me. Getting back to when Tim told me about the phone call that his fianc�e made to Elena and when he suspected I was being used and scammed and that Elena had no intentions of every going for the fianc�e interview in July or even in September 2002 and I should not send her any money for the trip to the sea or interview trip to Moscow, but it was too late I had already sent her $2,000 the day after I got back from Paris, because I felt bad because she felt and said I did not trust her or love her or I would not have ever questioned her about the trip to the sea or the Moscow interview trip money $1,400.00. The rest is history and told in Elena�s own words in the e-mails that I have copied and pasted here. I questioned her about the Russian man that called her honey and she said I must have misunderstood the Russian man's English over the phone and when I told her that it was said in Russian and to Tim�s fianc�e she never gave me an answer, but only to say either I could believe her or not that no Russian said such word. Then I found out about a month later that she had called Tim�s fianc�e and gave her hell about keeping her nose out of her business and to worry about her on American man and not her�s, but I still wanted to believe Elena, and I tried to make things work and then I found out in July 2002 after Chris got back from his trip to try to save his marriage to Ksenia that he saw Elena at Hollywood Nights and he talked with some of the guys on your tour and they said they had saw her there several nights talking with American men late at night. I questioned Elena 21 July 2002 about this whether it was true and if she thought this was proper behavior from her when she was still telling me she was going for fianc�e visa interview in September 2002 and was still going to marry me, and then she sent me this final e-mail. I went to St. Petersburg 26 August 2002 and met you Ken the night of first social 6 September and we talked about my situation and you told me you believed she was certainly a scammer, and when and if I wanted you too. You would list her on your web site as scammer, and you thought her sister should be listed as well, because if she were not scamming now she certain would be helping her sister in the future to meet your clients when she was came to your socials. I told you I would give Elena a little more time to show me her true colors and she did and I called you 26 September in your St. Petersburg office and talked with you and told you she was indeed a scammer and a liar and thief and requested her and her sister to be removed and listed as scammers and you did this. Now for some reason without any contact with me she as been removed from your scammer list and her sister is back on your site with full use of your socials and contacts with all your existing client base and future clients. Ken I just do not understand your company�s actions. They are certainly not what you told me they would be in September 2002 in Russia and in October 2002 when we talked in US by telephone. I am embarrassed to say I lost thousands of dollars in cash to her and thousands more in the cost of the Jamaica and Paris trips which were taking only in contemplation of us marrying, but I was being scammed from the very beginning, and the worst of it she did this to at least one American before me that she met at a social and will do it again if you do not help me to expose her, by keeping her on your scammer list on your web site and contacting all your others agencies you are dealing with in St. Petersburg and shutting her completely down or some day soon you will have another client like me telling you this same story all over again. We can stop her if you will help me Ken it is your choice to help me or cover your eyes and let these women like her kill your business and they will in time. I am pleading with you for your help. If only one of the guys before me that she scammed would have done what I am doing now. I am sure I would not have had this scam run on me. I have no doubt her intentions are despicable and she will rip off the next American who comes along. She should be forever banned from the AFA socials and website and most importantly listed for all to see that she is a scammer at your web site. If you have ANY doubt to my statements I have all e-mails from her and receipts of money sent to her and the fianc�e visa filings. Please confirm receipt of this e-mail. P.S. I do NOT hold AFA responsible currently because my AFA experience was wonderful. SHE was also until I found her out as a true lying con artist. I will not go on another AFA trip or have anymore dealing with AFA. If you do not remove from the current issue of your magazine, and extremely upset if she is not relisted as scammer on your web site immediately, because my experience with her should be a saving grace for the next person to meet her. So please relist her as a scammer...Thank you.! If You Have ANY questions call me at xxxxxxxx or contact me by e-mail at xxxxxxxxxxxx@tds.net or
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I received this e-mail 4:31 PM 28 April 2002 my time from Elena!
Hello my Dear husband xxxxxxx!
I miss you so much and I understand how much you mean for me now. You are very good person and you are really man of my dream. I'm sorry if I hurt you when we were together at the Jamaica. I promise never hurt you as that. I really love you and we will be together soon. I love your tenderness and attention to me. I just don't use to it but now I understand all of it and I thank you. My Dear xxxxx I must to tell you I was happy with you I will try make you happy. I miss you so much. I want hug and kiss you again. Honey I'm lucky! Today my luggage was returned. Everything is OK. Ilya thank you for gift and kiss you.
I love you.
Lena.
I received this e-mail 7:29 AM 7 May 2002 my time from Elena!
Hello my Dear xxxxxxxx!
I love you with all my heart and of course I want to see you. I thank you very much for your suggestion to go to Jamaica again and it's very nice from you. But it was |
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enough for me I don't want to go to Jamaica I was very tired from this trip I missed very much about my son and I was very upset of situation with my luggage. I thank you for all your pleasure for me and if you want give me present for my birthday so let me go to holiday with my son for 10 days because he worked all year very hard and he really need rest on the sea. We can see each other in Paris for 2 days. It's easy to get visa for me and not so long trip. I can make reservation myself and it will be not so expensive for you. Try understanding me and don't be hurt please.
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I sent Elena this e-mail 8:06 PM 7 May 2002 my time!
To "Lena" my "Beautiful and Loving Wife"
Honey please know that I can fully understand that maybe Jamaica is not possible or a comfortable trip for you at this time. Please know that I love you very much and I miss you very deeply. There is not a moment in the day that you are not on my mind. I love you! Honey I need you now more than ever, just being with you is so important to me! I feel our love is very special, something that many people in this life may not ever be lucky enough to find. I love you and I promise to try to understand you and your needs. I feel it is very important for us to hold our love very tightly and close to our hearts in this time we are forced by governments to be apart. Honey I understand your commitments to Ilya and agree he well deserves a holiday. I love him too Lena even though I have not had the opportunity to spend very much time with him I miss him too! Honey please understand that 2 day's in Paris sounds very nice however I feel that this is not enough time for us. I need you very deeply. I love you more than you could ever know. I have found a great trust in you and a true love I have never known before in my life. Honey I need to be with you again soon and I'm very happy and prepared to fly to St. Petersburg to be with you during our wait for your visa. Yes I realize that you may have many things to do while I'm there and I completely understand. I would like to rent a nice flat and be there for you in this time of waiting. It would be a great pleasure for me to have the opportunity to spend quality time with you and Ilya in your beautiful city. I miss you!!! Maybe I could even join you and Ilya on his very special holiday to the sea. I have never seen this sea so it would be very special for me as well, especially being with you and Ilya as a complete family. It would be a lot of fun and help me to strengthen my bond and friendship with Ilya and to show him my love and my need for him as well. Something he will remember in his heart forever. I know that you need to visit your parents and spend some time with them, this is very important for you I know and I understand. Please understand honey if it is possible and you feel comfortable with this I would love to meet your parents too! I know that maybe they do not have a place for me to stay at their home and I understand completely. However honey I could rent a hotel room in the city near by their home and stay there. This would both give me the opportunity to meet them and maybe give you more comfort because you could stay with me in my hotel. I would love to maybe invite your parents out to dinner and show them that they are very important to me too! I know that maybe you would need to help translate some of our conversations but it would be a great pleasure for me and also give your parents the opportunity to know me and see with their own eyes that I am a true and sincere man that loves their daughter with all my heart. I believe your mother and father would greatly appreciate this special gesture of love and consideration from me and from you! Then we could return to St. Petersburg together and spend some time with your friends and relatives and share our love together until your visa interview date and we could go together to Moscow and I could go with you and Ilya for your interview this is permitted and respected by embassy for the future husband to be there with his future wife. Honey this is very important to me because I love you so much and I miss you and I need you in my life now and forever. I LOVE YOU!!!
Sincerely
With All My Love
Your Loving and Devoted Husband
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I received this e-mail 6:26 AM 8 May 2002 my time from Elena!
Hello Dear xxxxxxxx!
I was very upset when I've got your last letters. It's remembering me Jamaica. Everything was good but suddenly you decided to go to Jamaica with me and when I said to you "not" you angry on me. You told me you don't understand me. OK I will try explaining. I told you before I need this 2-month to finish my deal in St-Petersburg. I should be here. I'm very busy here and it's not good idea to come to me before I come to you. If you don't want to meet me in Paris please wait for me at your home. I wanted to go with Ilya for rest. He really needs rest. He wants to be with mama. You don't understand that he not crazy about you he wants to be with mamma. For all of this need time. It's not so easy. I will spend this time with my close people in Russia. Our life with you will start in US. You can' t to come to us and be with us like father of my son. I am your wife in front of God but not in front people so I will really your wife when we will be marry in US. You say all the time "I need you" .You talk all the time about yourself you don't think about me. You don't think about me and don't ask me. If my opinion not like your it's make you ill. Try to think may be you need wife who will tell all the time "yes Darling". For what you torment me? I have pain in my head from your letters. You write me about your job. I've asked you simply question how you earn your money if you have so much free time. And this question makes you angry too. OK not need explain to me. Nothing. I told you I want to work with you but I don't know how and my question makes you angry again. xxxxxxx I told you at the Jamaica please be patience don't try to open my mind just wait for me. Instead of my business I must to answer to you all my time. My Dear xxxxx don't be angry on me I love you.
I kiss you.
Lena.
I received this e-mail 3:05 PM 9 May 2002 my time from Elena!
Hello my Dear xxxxxx!
I thank you for understanding. I love you and certainly I miss you
very much. Everything will be OK. I will come to you with Ilya and step by step we will
begin to understand each other better. I should wait my letter from Consulate then I will to
plan our trip to France for 5 days. If you agree to let us to go to holiday with Ilya so please
send to me extra money. I still didn't get letter from Consulate. Now we celebrate Victory
in the Second World War. All offices close till Monday. May be I will go to dacha till Sunday.
My Dear xxxxx I am sorry if I hurt you. I felt sadness in your last letter. Please don't
worry everything will be OK.
I kiss you many times.
Lena.
I received this e-mail 4:14 AM 4 June 2002 my time from Elena!
Hello Dear xxxxxxx!
I thank you for congratulations I love you and of course I miss you. Very soon we will be together in Paris and I hope everything will be OK. I want to go with you in good store to buy for you good clothe. I hope you agree with me. Dear xxxxxx I didn't account every dollar but please be calm I don't spent my money on stupid things. I spended a lot of money on the doctors for Ilya and me except that I bought several things (bag, portpled, shoes for me and Ilya, blouse). I spend money for tickets to my mamma, visa, yellow belt, and babysitter. So I have only 400$ now (you gave me for phone) but I don't want to spend it because this is for Moscow. Extra money for Moscow tickets and rest of Ilea. I should get in Parise 1950$. May be it will be better to take this money from credit card you gave me? What do you think about it? I kiss you many times and I love you. I thank you for tender words to me.
Lena
I received this e-mail 2:25 AM 18 June 2002 my time from Elena!
Hello xxxxxxx.
Now I'm going to my mamma with Ilya. I thought a lot about you and me and I see we are very different people. You are good person and I love you as a man but I see that I can't accept your point of view. I'm sure that women should stay with somebody only when she loves him but not because she depends from him. You prefer to have women who will sit without money near by you and look in your eyes like a dog. I think you are that kind of man who not sure in himself and you try to find means to hold women and you think that if I have no money for my life I will come to you because you will pay for my life. You make mistake. Now when I comeback to St-Petersburg I will try to find work because I spent more money in last month than I wanted and I will pay my debt from 400$ and I must earn money for me and my son. Please call to Consulate and tell them what ever you want. I can't to go to Moscow for the interview.
I wish you good luck and all the best.
Lena.
I received this e-mail 6:44AM 26 June 2002 my time from Elena!
Hello xxxxxxx!
I've got all your letters and I thank you for all your love to me but I don't know why your love gives pain in my heart. I remind you your letter to me:
("Lena I am your husband and I will support you, which I thought I have been doing and besides to $400 I gave you in Jamaica for replacement of your work money from when you got back from Jamaica until you came to me that I had estimated to be 2 1/2 months 26 April to first part of July 2002 that is why I gave you $400 because I knew you got paid 4000 rubles ($130) each month from work. I also thought you had the $400 from the phone money since you were not able to get a phone installed. I also thought also based $400 I gave you for the English lessons for you and Ilya which you and I thought would pay for 5 months (March, April, May, June, July), but you wrote me on 26 March 2002 that Ilya's lessons would be a little more 140 rubles yours would remain the same. I wrote you back on 26 March 2002 and told you this was ok because even with this new price you still had enough money for Ilya's lesson until first part of July 2002 and since your English lessons were still the same you could use some of the money that we set a side for your lessons for Ilya's lessons into July if you had not gotten your visa yet and came to me. Also I said I would send you more money for Ilya and your lessons if all money was used and you had not gotten your visa yet. So if you have used all money I gave you for yours and Ilya's English lessons I will send you more. Until I meet you in Paris 9 June 2002 use some of the $400 phone money if you have any of it to use if not then use some of the $400 I gave you as expense money for replacement of your job money. Honey I will send you whatever is necessary please explain your finacial situation to me and
what you need. You being an accountant what do you have left of $400 phone money and where was that money used if it is gone. I know you said you still have some of the 400 I gave you for job replacement money. Do you have enough to manage until we meet in Paris? Please explain your situation to me and if necessary I will send you money before we meet in Paris. I do not want you having to ask friends for money like for 2000 rubles for trip to your Mom's. Lena I thought you had plenty of money until you tell me you do
not. Please explain your situation. I will be glad to send you more money and I will understand if you have used some of the money or even all of the $400 phone money on something else, but I would like to know what you used it for. Lena you are accountant and I know you know if $400 phone money is gone you know where you used it. Please explain this is all I ask. I do not mind replacing it and I do not mind giving you money for anything you need all you have to do is ask. I wish I could read your mind, but I cannot no matter how hard I try. Ha Ha! I love you and Ilya just explain what you need and I will send it to you or give it to you in Paris. I have no problem with supporting my wife and son and my finances are good. Please do not worry your man will be good and real man and provide for his family, but you have to explain when and how much you need and for what and I will send. Honey I know how hard it is to manage money and I understand if you have used it in others areas this is ok. I know you thought it appropriate or you would not have used it that way. Just explain to me this and what you need and I will send money or bring it to Paris and give it to you then. I love you and Ilya and I want you to have the money you need. Do not be worried about this. I am not upset. I am laughing I think it funny "My Beautiful Russian Accountant Wife" use up all her money and afraid to explain to American Husband. HaHa") I wrote to you my expenses and you could send to me money by Western Union but you told me that you would bring me money in Paris. I said to you OK and I went to Paris to be absolutely sure that you will do what you promised to me. Then I've got what I've got. You say to me that you love me so much but you very easy change your mind and of course you know my reaction on this. You love me so much but you don't afraid hurt my soul of your actions. Because you know very well how to control women who live without money. I spended money that you gave me only on my life. I didn't drink vodka I didn't go to expensive restaurant but I
couldn't imagine that I must remember every my dollar and every ruble that you gave me. I wrote to you that I bought several things except we talked and I thought that if I ask you about it you will give me money for that when it will be convenient. Probably you have not enough money and everything expensive for you and Paris show it. It does explain everything. Nobody torment me with money like you. I told you before that I should work mush for supporting of my family and my son. I thank you for money ($2,000 that I sent 20 June 2002) but if you agree with me I will take only 600# because I must return debt and I gave some money for funeral of my aunt Polina older sister of my father. She is died last Friday. I should help of my mother she broke her arm very serious. I can send to you back the others money because I decided to reschedule interview in Moscow on more late date. I need time it was very hurt for me I should to be calm I don't want to be harrying with that. I still couldn't forget about last trip.
I wish you all the best.
Sincerely
Lena
I sent this e-mail 9:26AM 28 June 2002 my time to Elena
My Dearest "Wife" Elena
I love you with all my heart and soul and I am so sorry we are at this terrible stage in our relationship and future marriage in America. I can see now that the money issues have, seriously hurt our loving relationship.... I blame myself for this, as I have begun to realize how much of a misunderstanding that has been created by me asking you for an accounting of the money I have given you. I did not mean to hurt you or cause pain in your heart over these money issues....Perhaps, I have not explained myself correctly, to you in a way that we both could understand. So I want to start our relationship in a new way if possible. To show you my trust in you, I want you to put the $1400 dollars in your bank account there in St. Petersburg you told me you had and use it in Sept. when you go for your visa. This I hope will show you I love and trust you and that I can afford not to have the money returned to me. Both of us must work to understand why the money misunderstandings have occurred as I have said, many times starting in February that I was not a wealthy (Rich) man, however I could give you and your son a comfortable life style. I have tried to show you this, with trips to Montego Bay, Jamaica ( over $4,000 in cost) for 2 weeks and Paris, France ( over $4,000 in cost) for a week that I could afford to
give you and Ilya a good life, but somehow these trips especially the one in Paris have hurt our relationship rather than helped it. Generally, money has been the cause, and i just don't know why ..... maybe (as the bible and christain church says money is the root of all evil) Yes, I have money to take care you and Ilya....however, I do work toward a budget, and can't buy everything I want when I want. However, over time I have been able to get
the things I have wanted...... and I believe I can make you happy and give you a good life style.....I hope you can see this even though I know there is still anger in your heart...... Please try and forgive me and lets try to work together to understand better why the money has become so important in our relationship. You told me in St. Petersburg that me not being a rich man was not important to you and that me being a good man and your love for me and my love for you were your most important concerns. I believe if we do this together, and work on this we will begin to understand other issues in our life together, for the future. Let me know how you feel about my e-mail so we can begin with a new start. P.S. Elena please send me this letter that you said Chris wrote Svetlana,
Chris has called me and told me about your talk about this letter to Ksenia mother it was wrong of you to do this, but its your deal. It hurt me what you had to say about me to Ksenia mother. It also hurt me very much that you changed your interview date without talking to me when you and I had agreed in Paris the first day not to do such things anymore without talking to each other first. I talked with the Consulate General James Warlick in Moscow about changing it back to 11 July 2002 and he said "NO" it was not possible it had been changed to 5 September 2002 at 8am by your request and my only
choice was to cancel the visa interview and end everything. I told him I did not want to do that at this time. I wanted to give our relationship time to heal and become what it once was if you and I can find middle with our difficulties. I hope and pray this will be possible with us. I do love you so very much Elena. I want a marriage with you very much, but I am not sure you really want one with me. I think you really want a man with more money than I have to spend on you. I really have no idea what you really want or
expect from me in our marriage. I have offered you all I have, but I am not sure it is enough to make you happy. I await your thoughts and opinions on what I am writing to you in this letter of love and respect for whom I really believe to be my "Wife" in the eyes of "God" and myself. I wish our feeling now were like they were the day this picture was taken that I have attached. I am so sorry for what I have done to bring us away from these feeling of love and respect we had this day together.
Your Loving Husband
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I received this e-mail 10:05 AM 29 June 2002 my time from Elena!
Hello Dear xxxxxxx.
I've got your letter and I will try to answer on your questions. I remember that you told me that you are not rich man and if you remember I never ask you about to give a lot of money. Only one time I asked you about 800# for my rest with Ilea and only because I see that you can spend money on trip to Pairs (I didn't want to spend your money on this trip but after trip to Jamaica you started to ask me very much about it). In February you told me that we could meet each other in any place that I want. Why you didn 't told me that all of this expensive for you? You asked to me to meet you in Paris but it was very expensive for you too? You should to tell me:" Lena I have very small money so I will wait you in US and I can give you money only on the tickets and thing like that. I can not to give you money on the shopping in Russia or in Paris". Why do you buy for me gold ring at Jamaica if diner in the restaurant in Paris is expensive for you? What did you try to show me with that? I didn't try to take your money. I wanted to be marrying with good man. And if you have not money just tell me honestly and don't try to show me of your good life style. I have good life style even if I leave in Russia. I have not a lot of money but I have good school for Ilya I live in beautiful city I have my friends and my close people with me. I wanted from you only love. I don't want to cry every time when I see you and when you will treat me with every dollar. I think you saw that I love you as a man and I have good sex with you but every time when we start to talk about something else we have disagreements. We have a lot disagreement. That is why I decided to reschedule interview. xxxxxx it was my decision. And your decision to cancel interview at all. I still can send to you your money and if you want we can stay of a friends.
Lena
PS.
I did not discuss you as a person with mother of Ksenia. I only translate her letter. If you remember YOU asked me to help them. Please don't write to me any more about Chris. It would be better if you ask LETTER from him (if you need it). I don't want to do something else with their problems. Because if something happen Chris will tell you that it's blame of Lena.
I received this e-mail 10:33 AM 19 July 2002 my time from Elena!
Hello Dear xxxxxx!
I congratulate you with your birthday and I wish you all the best. 55yers it 's excellent.
This is age of real man and I believe that you'll have good future. I forgive you for your
mistake in Paris and I love you. You are good person but sometimes we do something
strange. Please don't think about it. Leave all these problem (I mean our problem) in a
past. If we will think about all the time we will be crazy. Now I feel better and I believe
everything will be OK.
I wish all the best to your family. Kiss from me for Dilan.
Lena
I sent this e-mail 8:47AM 21 July 2002 my time to Elena!
Hello "My Dearest "Wife" Elena
I have been here sitting at my computer for 4 hours now on my birthday morning
trying to think of what to you write you about and all I can think about is these questions to ask you.
(1) Am I still the only man in your life?
(2) Am I still your husband in your eyes and do you still feel in eyes of God too?
(3) Am I still the man of your dreams?
(4) Are you talking and meeting other men to decide the answer to these questions that I have just asked?
(5) Are you showing me proper respect (In Your Behavior as my engaged/fianc�e) and me being your patience and understanding fianc� that is waiting for you?
(6) Are you going to Hollywood's nights and talking with men?
(7) Are you meeting with them later for diner or other things if you find them interesting?
(8) Have you kept your promise to be faithful to me in your heart?
(9) Are you keeping yourself sexually just for me as you have promised me?
Elena these are only questions that I beg of you to answer honestly and from your heart and I will believe you and no one else. I trust you completely and believe you have never lied to me and I believe you will not lie to me now. I love you and I know you love me, but I need to know where you have me placed in your life now after what happened in Paris between us and at what level (Husband, Soul mate, Partner in life, Lover, Best Friend or just Friend)? What do I mean to you Elena? These are serious questions to me and I must have answers from your heart and soul. Elena I believe in you as my wife, soul mate, partner in life, lover and most of all my best friend. This has not changed for me from the very beginning when I told you that you were all this and even more to me. I know we have had many difficulties, but my feelings for you have never changed. I believe that all our difficulties can be solved with true love, understanding and patience between us. P.S. Elena I need this relationship between you and I as it was in these two pictures. We are connected as one with real love and happiness with the other.
Sincerely
With All My Love & Understanding
Your Patience Husband
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I received this e-mail 2:53 AM 23 July 2002 my time from Elena!
Hello Dear xxxxxxx!
I hope everything is OK with you. I understand your worries and I will answer on all your questions. I thought a lot about you and me and I remember all beautiful times in our past. You are very nice man I know it. I thank you for all nice things that you gave me but all our problems hurt me very much. I thought that if two person love each other they could to overcome difficulties between them but I understood now that sometimes it's impossible. I understood that we are very different people. We did not understand each other in the very easy situations. It started in Jamaica and if you remember I was upset from that. I think that joint life should start when people understand each other absolutely. When people fall in love it's good but it's not enough. You know that I can understand all problems of man (sex, age, and money) and I told you about it in February but now too much for me I could not imagine that it will be like that. It was not only your mistake. It was your nature. And I understood that unfortunately I could not accept this. I'm sure xxxxx that there is somewhere woman for you and you will meet her very soon and me as you�re the best friend and lover can help you with that and I promise it. Please don't be hurt. I'm sure your life only start now you will be happy and I will help you. Remember I am your best friend and lover. I hope to see your smiling face with dimples very soon. I kiss you many times.
I love you.
Lena
I received this e-mail 1:13 PM 26 October 2002 my time from Elena!
Dear xxxxxx,
your soul are dark, you make ill for people who nothing did for you. I was agree to be marry you because I thought that you are good person but you started torment me. Probably you don't understand it that's why you continue make ill for me, my sister and according to our children. Just try to think you wish bad things for women and her child only because I have debt to you. You forgot that you promise to give this money to me till I find work. You spend money on other women much more right now. I wish you to be happy with new women in Jamaica. I'm not liar but you are liar because you told me that you love me. If man loves woman he don't do bad things for her. I forgive you for all what you did for my family and me and I will pray God forgive your dark soul.
Lena
My Dearest Elena
Chris and I have done nothing more than tell the truth to AFA and we will continue telling the truth to the I. N..S. and the U.S. Embassy in Moscow and the St. Petersburg Police and I see it must be causing difficulties for the liars and thieves and for this we make no apologies. Chris and I wish you and Ksenia only the best and we seek only that you and Ksenia be rewarded for your honest treatment of us as your fianc�'s. P.S. If you and Ksenia want to send Chris and I the $1400 US dollars you each stole from us. We would be more than happy to notify AFA, The I.N.S., The U.S. Embassy and the St. Petersburg Police of this, and we are willing to forgive you and Ksenia for all the other monies you and Ksenia liar to get from us from the beginning when these pictures were taken.
Sincerely
Your #2 Ex-Fiancee
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I received this e-mail 5:33 PM 26 October 2002 my time from Elena!
Dear xxxxxxx
I knew all this month that you worry only about money. I told you before
that I can return it to you but not now and you were agree with that. You forgot
everything. I repeat to you I will do this as soon as I earn it. If you can not wait when
woman with small child earn it what can I do. You can do what ever you want.
Lena
P.S. I don't know about Ksenia.
I sent this e-mail 6:26 AM 27 October 2002 my time to Elena!
My Dearest Elena
No! It's not about the Moscow money you stole from me, and I would like to make this
perfectly clear I never agreed for you to take this money nor did I agree that it was a
loan to you. I only said that you should not have taken this money without asking me
and that I did not believe you would ever give me this money back and you were a thief
and liar. It's all about your lies to me "ELENA"! You know all the lies about you loving
me and wanting to marry me. Elena you lied to me from the very beginning of our relationship to the end. Elena you scammed me and the pity of it all is that I truly loved you, but it was all about money and holiday enjoyment at my expense for you. You prostituted yourself with the pretence you were engaged/married to me in Montego Bay and Paris and in St. Petersburg before you told me about taking the Moscow money. It was all about you getting money and gifts from me. Just like when you wanting me to buy all the clothes for you and Ilya in Russia or Paris not in America because you never ever had any intentions of coming to America. Just like when you wanted the Moscow Interview trip expenses money and the trip to Turkey for rest with Ilya and Your Russian Man that likes to call you "Honey" (because you sure did not want me to come along, but it was alright to scam the money from me for the trip) before you came to Paris and if I would have sent it to you. You would have never came to Paris and you would have stole the Paris trip money that I sent you too. Yes! Elena I am going to do everything in my power to expose your deeds and keep you from doing this to some other man. Keep your Russian man that calls you honey, because if I have my way he is the only man you will ever have and if I can ever get in contact with him. I will expose all your deeds to him also, because I am sure her knows nothing about your deeds of prostitution with me, Jack and John. I believe he will find the photos I have very convincing of your deeds of prostitution as far as that goes so will the St. Petersburg Police and I believe the Russian tax collector maybe very interested in the money you received from me and stole from me. He may very well want the taxes you owe on this money. Elena you are so right about my soul being dark, because you are the one that made it dark and please do not pray for my soul. Elena pray for your soul because you are the thief and liar. I am only the one you lied to and stole from and that is all that I have said to AFA is the truth about our relationship. So Elena sleep well and remember when your ass is freezing and you have no money and things are so difficult. That you had a chance for a good life with a good man who really loved you, but you chose to be a liar and thief instead of good wife and mother. You have cheated your son Ilya out of good life and future also with your deeds and choices. P.S. Elena here is a couple of pictures that I will send to the St. Petersburg Police and Russian Tax Collectors office when I get the time to report your deeds to them.
Sincerely
Your Ex Fiancee # 2
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I received this e-mail 3:52 PM 27 October 2002 from Elena!
xxxxxxx!
You are ill man now you are mad! All what you write not true. You forgot I never ask you about money you send it to me myself. I did not want to go to Jamaica second time because you torment to me. I did not want to go to Paris. You ask me about it. All what you wanted to have sex with me because nobody want to have sex with you in US. I was correct with you but you ask me make pornographic pictures. xxxxxxx you are jealous and greed for money. I did not ask spend money on me and if you write to everybody about me dirty things you are mad. Everybody will think that you are mad. You walk on my street and make pictures of my home it's unbelievable! Try to think about it. Please be calm and I will send to you money back very soon. Please tell me do you agree wait two month or not?
Lena.
I sent this e-mail 2:26 PM 28 December 2002 my time to Elena!
Hello My Dearest Elena
Am I going to ever hear from you again? I have did what you asked I have been calm and waited the (2) months you requested in your last e-mail to me 27 October 2002 and have not contacted the US Embassy, I.N.S. or St. Petersburg Police yet. Did you lie to me again in your last e-mail? I have your e-mail letters where you asked me for the money for Moscow trip and I have your e-mail letter saying you would send Moscow money back if you did not go to Moscow for interview. I have your e-mail letters saying you enjoyed Jamaica and your e-mail letter suggesting we meet in Paris if I would give you money for 10 day trip to the sea with your son. So please Elena stop your lies you asked for everything that I gave you in one way or the other and you know it. I am only asking for the Moscow money back that you said you would give back to me if you did not make the trip to Moscow for your fianc�e visa interview. So please stop being liar to everyone you speak to about our relationship. I have not lied to you ever and you know it. I also gave you everything you ever ask for from me and you know this to be true. I have not said anything about you to anyone that was not true and I could show them your e-mail letters that it was true from your own words. Please read below the e-mail letter you send me 28 April 2002 about our Jamaica trip so these are the words of a woman in torment? Were you lying then or in your last letter 27 October 2002 when you said I tormented you in Jamaica? Also your words about Paris trip and trip to the sea with your son. So Elena who is "Liar" me or you? I have everyone of your letters to me with your lies to me in our relationship and the money you ask for and received from me. These e-mail letters below are just the ones about Jamaica, Paris and the 10 day trip to the sea with your son.
Sincerely
Your Former Fianc� / Husband
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