| Tamara Derega Location: Lenin Street, home 62, apartment 62, Komsomolsk, Poltava region, Ukraine (poss fake address) Email: tamde@epost.com.ua Dear Russian Black list Here I have a correspondent who claims to be Tamara Derega. I actually remember her from some websites and she is in http://absoluteagency.com and in http://www.Allmatches.com and God knows wherelse. Here are her and my letters .. A GOOD EXAMPLE FOR THOSE WHO WANT TO FIGURE OUT THE REAL INTENTION OF THE LADY. Here we go. her letter # 1 (Look for the red flags!!) Dear Nxxxxx! Thank you for your letter. It's so pleasant that you are interested in me. After all has happened in my life I'm really disappointed in men and life in my country. It is very difficult to find a good well paid job especially for a woman even she is talented educated clever and hard-working. What about men in Ukraine they are very irresponsible selfish, they think only about their own problems first and sometimes they even forget about us, about our needs, wishes and feelings. So I'm just seek and tired of such life. Sometimes I want to go away and hide somewhere from all that but unfortunately I have no possibility to do it. But I'm very romantic person and I believe that every person has it's second part and I still hope that someday I'll find the man who will love me back and who can give me the life I deserve. I had much doubts concerning Internet and I was thinking over the idea to go to the Internet cafe for a long time. A lot of people say that I am very pretty and I should do it, that maybe this is my chance to find the real love and happiness. So after long hesitations I thought "Why not?" But you must understand that I'm not looking for a friend to make a correspondence with. I have a lot of friends now I'm searching for a man to spend the rest of my life with. From here.. this should be the beginning of a normal letter Honey Nxxxxx, I almost forgot to tell you about myself. I'm 22 years old. I live with my parents and my little daughter Kristina. She is the special part of my life. At the present moment I study in the institute and I have no job. But my parents help me in everything they can. I will tell you more about myself during our correspondence surely is you still want to communicate with me. If you wish, I will continue our correspondence with great pleasure. By the way, I would like to see your photo. Don't think that Appearance is very important for me I just want to imagine what you look like. I will be looking forward for your answer. With love to you, Toma. Please, Write to me tamde@epost.com.ua -------------------------------------------------- Letter from me to Tamara #1 (Please check the approach, never bite at the first attempt although you mat have doubts, being over-suspicious may be harmful if she's honest) Dear Tamara, I am very glad receiving your letter. I understand the economical situation in your country. I also know that men are used to drown into alcohol and do not like to work etc. The English used in your letter is very good. Do you speak English or is this an agency translation ? I am an industrial engineer, 40 yrs old, divorced with no children. I live alone with my dog in Antalya / Turkey. I spend my time mostly at work. At weekends you can find me either in the mountains or sailing in the sea. I love this city. You also have forgotten to write your surname and postal address that I can send you normal mail too. Do you have a telephone ? I would love to hear your voice. Hereby I send you my picture and one of your pictures too I have found in another website. Is this your picture too ?? Hope to hear you soonest. Yours Nxxxxx I have pasted in this email another picture of Tamara found in www.Allmatches.com to see her reaction. Letter #2 from Tamara Dear Nxxxxx! I was very glad to receive your letter. To be honest, I was afraid that you will not answer me. But you did and it means very much for me. I was waiting for your letter impatiently and I was thinking about you almost all time. I couldn't wait to go to the Internet cafe and to check my e mail. Your letter was just like a ray of light in the dark. You may not believe me but you mean too much for me. I must confess that I'm surprised too that it was happened so quick and I hope you feel the same. It is so pleasant that you still interested in me. I treat you very seriously and I want to go on our communication because it means too much for me. When I saw your letter I just didn't know what to do, I feel like crying, laughing, jumping and hugging the computer. I must confess that I didn't expect to find a good man so quick. I don't know how has it happened, but you have touched my heart, you've given me a hope for better life, you've helped me to believe in myself, after your letters I feel myself much stronger and happier. Till now I lived only for mydaughter. She is the only human being for whom I would be able do everything. But in my heart there are a lot of space for my future husband. Since my childhood I dream about healthy, strong, full of love and happy family, without quarrels and sorrows. After you came into my life I think about my future with you. I believe that I could make you happy and if God chose I will do everything possible for it. But on the other hand I must confess that I am really afraid of my feelings because once I was betrayed and I don't want to be betrayed once again. Especially after the story that had happened with my close girl-friend. She had a correspondence with one man from your country for a long time and she was in love with him. They were going to meet for the first time and she excitedly waiting for it. But suddenly he disappeared. He didn't answer her letters and later he wrote her in his letter that she was not only one he corresponded with. She was suffering for a long time. Her story touched me deeply and that's why I was hesitating before going to the Internet cafe for the first time. But I want to hope that you are not that kind of men and you won't hurt me. From the my side I can guaranty honesty I hope you can say the same. But if you change your mind and want to stop our communication, please, let me know about it at once. I have to ask you to make up your mind about me and! to be sure whether you still want to communicate with me. If you do, I have to ask you to help me to pay for our correspondence because as I wrote you in my last letter I have no job and my parents pay for my education and help me and help me to grow up my little daughter. It's not so easy for me to ask them for money to pay for the Internet cafe services. I really want to throw in my lot with you and if you want to be with me to it will be the best prove of your feelings to me. Honey Nxxxxx, I am really sorry that I have to ask you for help. I just want to go on our correspondence because I think that you are just what I need. (How does she know that ?) I almost forget to thank you for your photo. It's great and I found you very attractive. I will be looking for your letter and I hope it will come soon. I kiss you. My Best Regards Toma. Letter #2 from me to Tamara Dear Toma, Thanks for your reply . The picture is very nice too. But still you did not answer my questions. I want to know your full name, address and telephone please. if we are talking about sincerety, honesty and trust, I certainly want to know those details about you. I know that correspondence is the beginning of learning to know each other but meeting face to face is worth of a thousand letters. I plan to make a business/touristic trip to Ukraine and Russia this summer. I have seen your profile a few months ago in a website. So this means you are looking for a soulmate for a long time and couldn't find it yet. ?? You are a very beautiful woman . I am sure that you are receiving lots of letters from men. This is very normal. I am honoured that you have chosen me, thank you. Which internet cafe and translation service are you using ? I will contact them to arrange their payments. Hope to hear you soonest..Yours, Nxxxxx Letter #3 from Tamara Hello my dear Nxxxxx! I was very glad to receive your letter. O reread it for many times because every your word is precious for me. I'm sorry that I didn't answer your questions, but I have so many thoughts to tell you that I forgot about them. I give you my home address: Tamara Derega, Lenin Street, home 62, apartment 62 Komsomolsk, Poltava region, Ukraine Caution!: Check the WU transfer address below with the one she gives here. NOT THE SAME !! Please be also aware of the Lenin Str. ! Every town has one and per coincidence most girls are living in those Lenin streets (fake address)::)))) And that's where the suspected scam begins.. Is this a love letter a woman should send her potantial soulmate ???? Honey, I want that you will be honest with me and do not play games with my heart. I made a mistake once and I do not want to make a mistake again. I want that you prove me that you have a serious attitude to me and this is not game for you. I want to find a good man who will love and respect me as a woman. I want to create a happy family with him to leave my country and begin a new life. Sweetheart! I should tell you something about the payment for the Internet service. I use the service of Internet cafe. This organization has some computers and the women who want to find a husband come here and make a list with foreign men. These girls told me that there are many women leave my country and there are many girls are going to leave it. They have a concrete man with whom they already met and these girls make all documents. All foreign men pay them the costs of the service of Internet cafe because it is too expansive for us. The Internet cafe takes the payment for the subscription and using the computer 50$ per month and 5$ for the typing, translate and sending for one my letter. The prices are too high but they know that in any way, the foreign men pay for the correspondence and they think that this price is suits. I think that about the money, I live in very crazy country but you will see it when you will come to me. In a word our correspondence will cost for me at about 100$ per month because we should write each other as much as possible to know each other better before we will meet both of us. We should make everything to be together in the future. In addition, I really want to leave my country and to have thoughtful shoulder of my man, husband and lover near me. Moreover, I want to be sure, calm near my sweet husband in happiness, and sad to take a half of success and sufferings and to be with him all my life. Oh, yes, I forget to tell you if you transfer the money. It will be better if you do it through the Western Union there is an office in my town and all women from Internet cafe get the money this way. You can transfer the money on my full name: Tamara Derega, town- Kremenchug, country- Ukraine. Nevertheless, I want to ask you that you should do it if you are interested in me. If you will know me better you will understand that I needn't a friend to make a list with him I want to find a good man and leave my country. Honey! If you are really interested in me and want that all our dreams come true I will be waiting for the letter from you. With all my love to you, Toma. ---------------------------------------------------- And my last letter.. to Tamara.. Dear Tamara, Thank you for your letter. It is true that many women from Russia and Ukraine find their soulmates abroad. I have friends who are happily married with Russian and Ukrainian girls. On the other hand, due to economic situation in Former Soviet Union (FSU), most women need these correspondences only to ask for money. We call them scammers. In some cases the agency does it without her knowledge. I don't blame you. I also want to be sure of you, as you want to be sure of me. I hope you understand me. We think the same way. Let me contact with the internet cafe / agency. I also need their phone, postal address, and the contact person there. I surely arrange the payment as soon as I am in direct contact, with you and them. You see I am most serious with my intentions. Do you have a telephone ? I would love to hear you..? Hope to hear you soonest. Yours , Nxxxxx Take care !! The letters are not the letters of a woman who is approaching a man for a serious relationship and more. The main subject is the money to be sent to the Internet Cafe / agency . Otherwise no correspondence threat. Best regards., Nxxxxx |
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